Frequently Asked Questions

We know that arranging a funeral can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re unsure of how it all works. At Rochdale Funerals, we believe in clear, honest guidance. Below are some of the most common questions people ask. If there’s anything else on your mind, please feel free to get in touch, we’ll walk you through it.

What exactly does a celebrant do at a funeral?
A celebrant leads the ceremony in a way that reflects the life, values, and wishes of the person being remembered. This can include readings, music, personal stories, and moments of reflection. Every ceremony is different, and always personal.
Do you have to be religious to have a celebrant?
Not at all. Celebrants can include religious elements if that’s important to you, or none at all. It’s completely tailored to the family and the person being honoured.
Can we include our own readings or music?
Absolutely. I’ll always encourage families to include music, poetry, or memories that mean something to them. It’s your service, and I’m here to help bring it together with care.
Do you meet with us before the funeral?
Yes. I’ll spend time with you, either in person or over the phone, to learn about your loved one and understand what matters most. This helps me write a ceremony that truly reflects them.
Can friends or family speak during the service?
Of course. If you or anyone close would like to say a few words, I can help you plan when and how that happens so it all feels natural and supported.
How long does a service usually last?
Most services are between 20–40 minutes depending on the setting and what you'd like included. We’ll always work within the time allowed by the venue.
Can you include humour or light-hearted moments?
Yes, when it feels right. Many people find that moments of gentle humour or fond stories can bring comfort and balance to the service.
Do you offer other types of ceremonies?
My focus is on funeral and memorial ceremonies, but I’m always open to discussing other ways people might want to mark a loss or say goodbye. Just ask.
How do we arrange your services?
In most cases, the funeral director will arrange my involvement. But you’re also welcome to contact me directly with any questions, I’m happy to guide you through the process.
Do you charge a separate fee?
No, my fee is included through the funeral director’s arrangements. If you’re unsure, just ask them whether a celebrant is part of the service you’ve chosen.